Narrative Podcast

Ep. 55 " Go to School and Get a Degree to Make Something Successful Out of Yourself," JC Chanowsky's False Narrative

JC Chanowsky's early years were filled with traditional Sunday dinners at his Italian Grandparent's house until upheaval struck, leaving him feeling unanchored and prone to bullying. How did a young JC navigate the chaos of constant moves and a family split? Tune in to discover the adversity that influenced his formative years.
As his personal life spiraled, JC found mentors in unexpected places. A friend’s father became a makeshift role model, offering stability during turbulent times. And his stepfather, who would prefer to talk sports but left no need unmet for JC. 
After hitting rock bottom, JC made a life-altering decision to join the military, which led him not to the Army, but to the Navy. He shared the critical skills that he learned that transformed his approach to both business and family life. Listen as JC shares how military discipline became the cornerstone of his success now in life and business. And learn about his strong bond to his father that has developed over the years. 
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Ep. 54 "If I Do Everything Right, Life Will Turn Out Well" Josh Latterell's False Narrative

"If I do everything right, life will turn out well", this is the mentality that turned Josh into a bit of a people pleaser. Being a people pleaser is how he ended up in an unhealthy marriage. And in business, because Josh could figure things out, he noticed the expectations of him at work entailed more than just his job description. And guess what? Life didn't turn out well.
Josh grew up in Northern NM being home-schooled with his 9 other siblings. His only other friends were his parent's friends' children. That environment grew social awkwardness in Josh. But once his family moved back to Norther MN from the Minneapolis area, he was thrown into public school. It became obvious to Josh that he didn't have that social hierarchy, that others understood. Josh learned to be risk-averse.
Through his divorce, getting remarried, starting a business, and having children Josh has learned how to have boundaries to keep people pleasing at bay. Now he'll take calculated risks in relationships and in his career. He shared all about that transformation in this episode. 
To Connect with Josh Latterell: JoshLatterell.com or ElmDigital Marketing.com
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Ep. 53"A ConservativeLife Is a Successful Life" Geoff Wollerman's False Narrative

Have you ever witnessed a child rebelling against their parent? Like, the more the parent says "This is the right way", the more the child continues to try to do it their way? That's kind of how Geoff Wollerman was growing up. He got the message early that you get married and find a job and that is how to find success in life. He rejected this ideology. In high school, he started down a rebellious path. Plus, he's an idea guy so his mind was always racing with ideas, and drugs and alcohol gave him a break! He felt out of place and ahead of his time, at the same time. 
He didn't finish high school until later he earned his GED. It turns out all the searching he did until about his 30's (when he graduated from college) was all for this moment in life. Now Geoff is using all of his English language skills to start an IT company. Listen to hear what he now defines as a successful life and what he is doing with these maxims:
“Life is what happens to you when you're busy making other plans.”
Language is Everything
Don’t try to change ppl
Know yourself
Reuse plastic as much as possible
Time and space are more important than money and success
Fake it till you make it but don’t bulls**t a bullsh**tter
Love is Slippery
Find the one thing. Be sure it’s the one thing and then give it 150%. But be 200% sure it’s the one thing.
Play by all the rules and then break all the rules
Connect with Geoff Wollerman on LinkedIn: @GeofWollerman and check out his IT company TruenodeTech.com
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Ep. 52 "Bad Choices Do Not Equal Bad People" Tamantha's Narrative

When Tammy thinks back to her upbringing all she can do is offer empathy for her father. Her biological father made some very bad choices. But did that make him a bad man a bad person? Tammy knows how his parents were and understand how they shaped who he was. You have got to hear about her upbringing and things she can remember from a very early age like 2 years old. 
Tammy's mother was careful to never throw her biological dad "under the bus." Her mom was wise enough to know that in time Tammy would glean the truth. But in response to her mother never saying her dad was a bad man, Tammy learned he had just made bad choices. She is able to apply that to the general population now! We all get to make our own choices and believe the perception we have created. Adversity can breed character-building. Tammy is almost drawn to challenges but sees them as an opportunity to grow.  We are all in charge of our destiny within our choices. We can accept or change our perception. 
Quotes from the episode:
Chief Tecumseh Words of Wisdom: “When you rise in the morning give thanks for the food and for thejoy of living. And if you see no reason for giving thanks, then the fault lies only in yourself.”
William Shakespeare: “A Jack of all trades is a master of none. But often times, is better than a master of 1.”
To connect with Tammy: arenatrainingfacility.com or operations@arenatrainingfacility.com
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Ep. 51 "I Must Be the Smartest Person In The Room BUT Not Shine Too Bright." Susan Finn's False Narrative

Growing up somehow Susun Finn understood that she needed to be the smartest person in the room but because she was a female, it was important not to outshine the boys.
Susan got pretty smart and worked as a food scientist at a Dairy Farm. Susan ended up leaving that job to take care of her 4 children and the others who had adopted their family. Unfortunately, one day her mother was in a terrible accident and she became her mother's full time caregiver. Susan was so busy taking care of those who depended on her she eventually surrendered to "Just being 'ok' was ok!" She gained wisdom through those years...some of it coming from her children.
Susan is proud of her education and no longer thinks it's bad to shine too brightly. In fact, she uses that knowledge to help others to shine brightly too!
To connect with Susan Finn: susan@riseabovenoise.com  or www.riseabovenoise.com
Check out her free resources: 
Digital Marketing Resources and monthly free webinar: 
Upcoming Digital Marketing Webinars and Workshops
 
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Ep. 50 Narratives: Because Every Story Matters

Why narratives? Because every story matters. You know, so many people ask, "Is this a Christian podcast?" This is not the focus but what we know about personal development is that it usually includes an aspect of Spiritual, Mental, Physical, and Social growth. Some stories have a strong message from one of those areas, religion may just be easier to notice. 
We are so grateful to everyone who has shared their stories. We also hear "Why share MY story?" In each episode we explore 3 components, what WAS the core belief, what was the bend in the road that shifted you, and what daily practices keep you on course with your new narrative or foundation. Sharing encourages others like a chain reaction. That chain reaction starts when a listener hears a way towards accountability and realizes it's never too late to make a new start with change.
Psychologist Stanley Milgram found that 80% of people do not have the psychological and moral resources to defy an authority's order. We want to equip you with the resources you need to craft a new narrative!
And lastly, we are most like those that we spend the most time around. We love you spending your time with us and we'd like to do the same in return with a Men's retreat in Michigan. Will you join us? Click on the link for details!
Apply to Share Your Story!
Register for Men's Retreat April 27th
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Ep. 49 " I Will Wait For a Spouse That Is a Good Fit" Melissa VanOss's Narrative

Melissa Van Oss, watched her grandparents as she grew up, they represented the perfect couple. They complimented each other and one was never far from the other. Their example of a life long relationship became Melissa guiding light for her life.
However, when she looked to her parents for that same example she saw divorce. She shared how she processed that loss and how it changed her view of what she wanted for herself. She knew she wanted to wait for a connection that would last. 
In her waiting, she grew quite independent. Melissa crafted an identity of her own, that did not depend on a lifelong partner. She'd love to get married, had many long-term relationships,  but she wasn't going to settle. And as she explained, her grandmother was independent and that example gave Melissa encouragement to go from country mouse to small town to city mouse now in D.C. Melissa shared her daily practices for developing personally and in business as she waits for Mr. Right.
To Connect with Melissa VanOss: creativeblissllc@yahoo.com
on all social @AuthorMelissaVanOss, LinkedIn @MelissaVanOss, and https://linktr.ee/melissavanoss
 
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Ep. 48 "I Have to Fill In the Gaps" Tyler Schmoll's False Narrative

Tyler Schmoll, self-proclaimed "gap filler" and human version of Curious George got vulnerable about how those personality characteristics ultimately made him close his business.  Tyler had gotten good at filling the gaps, doing those things others didn't want to do. Or when things went arye, he was "Johnny On the Spot" willing to help in any way, shape, or form.  At the same time being curious, "How do we, how can I,  solve this problem?"
It all came to a head when he saw his wife struggling due to his desire to fill gaps at work and at home. He shared how it felt to him, as that identity, of being a business owner, wasn't his anymore. He doesn't see it as a failure because he chose his family and that was the right decision by him. Tyler offered a unique perspective of reacting vs. responding. 
Connect with Tyler Schmoll: iam@yourgreenercleaner.com, or on 
FB: TylerSchmoll, and IG: @Tyler__Schmoll
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Ep. 47 "I Am Going To Be a Hero." Rob Hohmann's Narrative

Rob Hohmann's dad did a good job protecting his family and country, and Rob was watching. He too wanted to be a protector. He fell in love, got married, and before the year was up found himself getting a divorce. He felt like he'd gone from hero to zero. But like a true hero, he didn't give up on life and love. He learned the lesson of "What may seem like a short coming, could be a blessing in disguise."
Actually, the same year his divorce was final he found himself promising vows to another woman. An animated Italian woman who embraced him. He now has the privilege of protecting them. But not just them. Listen to how Rob became a hero again. He is today, who he thought he'd be - reliable, protective, go to bat for others. You may be surprised how he does it though!
Rob Hohmann's Digital Business Card: RobHohmann.com
text: 813-943-9683
To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live

Ep. 46 "It's a Cold, Dark, and Isolating World." Keegan Schaefer's False Narrative

When you grow up in abuse, neglect, and abandonment, it's easy to draw the conclusion Keegan Schaefer did. Keegan shared just a few of the injustices he suffered, as little as 2 years old. When he was 12 years old he weighed the pros and cons of continuing his Ritalin medication. It was one of the best decisions Keegan has made in his life. Keegan has since used his adversity to understand human behavior and the power we hold in making decisions in our lives.
He shed light on how life was 6 generations ago and how our evolution through war, men working outside of the city they live in, and the Industrial Revolution, that life has really changed. In life, through watching the people that care for us, we draw three conclusions. And by age 18 we have confirmed these conclusions that we then use for the rest of our lives.
We draw conclusions about ourselves
We draw conclusions about others or groups at large
We draw conclusions about life at large
 Now, Keegan encourages others to face adversity head-on! Listen as he explains where the American family has been, where we are now, and how to be thankful for adversity and grow. How can you be showing up as your best in your priorities so you can serve your mission?
"This too shall pass" (for the great times or for the bad times)
"You can have the best boat, the best crew, and best captain on the entire ocean, but without a destination, you are just going to float aimlessly!" -Arnold Schwarzenegger
Three questions Coach Keeg uses and encourages others to ask themselves when faced with adversity.
What is the lesson?
What is the opportunity?
How can I use this to help others?
To Connect with Keegan Schaefer: LinkedIn: Keegan Schaefer Email: Coachkeeg@gmail.com
To Work with Keegan Schaefer: coachkeeg@tribalstoics.group, CKC.Coach, Tribal Stoics - Men’s Facebook Group
LinkedIn: Tribal StoicsCheck out Keegan Schaefer's book: Selfish to Selfless: 5 Pillars to Fulfillment Through Purpose
To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live