Ep. 56 "Success Means Staying In One Career And That Is Your Identity" Gery Deer's False Narrative

I sat down with Gery Deer, diving into the early narratives that shaped him from a young age. Growing up surrounded by specific societal and familial expectations, Gery discusses how these early influences scripted his life in ways he didn’t initially see. Ever wonder how much of your life is shaped by what you're told you should do versus what you want to do?

Gery hits a major crossroads during his college years, where everything he thought he knew about his path comes into question. From losing scholarships to shifting academic and personal relationships, his “bend in the road” was all about challenging what you thought was your set path. It’s a revealing look into those life-changing moments that force us to step out of comfort zones and ask the hard questions about who we really want to be.

Fast forward to today, and Gery is actively redefining what his life looks like, focusing on authenticity over compliance. Whether it’s navigating the responsibilities of caregiving or shifting career gears, his story is a powerful reminder of the importance of staying true to yourself, even when life throws curveballs. Tune in and get inspired by Gery’s journey to take control of his own story. Maybe it’ll spark some ideas on how you can reshape yours too!

To Connect with Gery Deer:

Facebook: Official Gery L. Deer

Insta: @officialgeryldeer

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gerydeer/

Gery's Podcast: Old Nerd In The Gym podcast

And the articles we mentioned:

Deer In Headlines II: What we both knew. - https://jamestowncomet.wordpress.com/2023/06/12/what-we-both-knew/

(Award-nominated piece I wrote last year about the day my father realized he was dying.)

Deer In Headlines: Caregiving with dignity - https://www.xeniagazette.com/2017/10/04/caregiving-with-dignity/

Deer In Headlines: Anticipatory Grief. https://www.xeniagazette.com/2023/03/09/anticipatory-grief/

To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live