Narrative Podcast

Ep. 45 "If I Chase After the Things I Want, Everyone Might Suffer For it." Adam Troy's False Narrative

How do you turn into a nice guy? Adam Troy grew up bigger than the other kids his age so his mom warned him not to get upset and react physically because he could hurt them. After a traumatic evening of simply wanting mac and cheese, he got what he wanted but then his house blew up with arguing and emotions. Throughout life, Adam put others first so they got to be happy. Time and time again Adam had ot put others first so as to not let them get hurt.
This proved to not be beneficial in his marriage either. Adam told the whole story including him finally acting out in anger from bottling up all his resentment about what he wanted. But then it was time to look in the mirror. He realized he did not have the power to change a room. He does not let his past define him but he does use his core values of protecting his family's physical, financial, emotional, and spiritual peace to make decisions now. He knows he was given a life and a purpose. Listen to how he is helping other men who experience what he went through in his marriage.
To Connect with Adam Troy: IG @TheEpicLifeCoaching,  Facebook Epic Life (Coach),  LinkedIn Adam Troy or YouTube @TheEpicLifeCoach
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Ep. 44 "It's About What You Can Do, Instead of What You Can't" Betty Galligan's Narrative

One would think that growing up with two deaf parents was not fair. Betty Galligan, our guest today, never picked up on that attitude from her parents and never experienced it herself. Betty and her siblings didn't know there was anything wrong with their parents until the rest of the world pointed it out. Her large extended family focused on what they could do instead of what they couldn't. 
And Betty found out that she could do a lot of things. Listen as she shares her successes in life. Late 80's 90's culture was to work harder not smarter. She somehow found herself striving for perfection. That was until one day when a person who did not exude the image of perfectionism acted in a way that would dawn on Betty as perfect years later. It dawned on Betty that perfectionism didn't matter but listening and connecting with people is what mattered. Learn about her new business venture and how she helps people to connect. 
To Connect with Betty Galligan by email: betty@newberrypr.com or online NewberryPR.com and  ThePRFinishingSchool.com
To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live

Ep. 43 "You Are Going to Take Over the Family Business" Trunnis Goggins II's Narrative

On December 24th, 1995 Trunnis Goggins III was born and Trunnis Goggins II knew he needed to get his act together to provide and protect this little human who would be depending on him. 
Trunnis Goggin II, from Buffalo, NY, had been told from an early age that his dad's "empire" would be his. He felt like he lived in his dad's shadow. But Trunnis had no passion for managing businesses and refused to accept that he'd take over. While his peers dreamed of what they would do and then pursued it, Trunnis's future was planned. So he did what normal teens do, he rebelled. Not rebelled and paved his own path, he rebelled to the point of hurting himself and his future. But when he became a father, it all changed. 
Trunnis moved to Indiana and joined the Navy. There he was taught discipline, and accountability, found his identity, and developed a good mindset. He's written a book The 4P's of You. Listen to this episode to find out what the book is all about, how he helps inmates, and you gotta check out his podcast to learn about getting an accountability practice started in your life too!
Connect With Trunnis Goggins II on his Podcast: The 4P's Podcast
Check out his book: The 4 P’s of You
To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live

Ep. 42 "Do The Right Thing. Don't Take Risks" Drew Deraney False Narrative

"No Skateboards, you'll hurt yourself. No climbing trees, I don't want you to fall and get hurt. No guns in the house!" These were the rules of Drew Deraney's mom while his dad was away working to provide for the family.  Little did he know, it was because of an incident in their family, that Drew's mom sheltered him so much. Drew was taught not to take risks, do the right thing, and life will work out. 
This was not Drew's experience. He let loose in college, took himself too seriously when he entered the workplace, and then went rogue doing "the right thing" only to be fired. Listen to Drew explain how he resented "Do the right thing." at the same time as honoring "Do the right thing." He reasoned it's how you do the right thing. And what he has seen is that men don't get that permission. Learn about the opportunities he's pursuing to do the right thing and help men to be more authentically themselves due to life lessons he shared in this episode. 
To Connect with Drew Deraney: Get access to Drew's Free Webinar "Get Over Yourself" go to www.profitcompassion.com or email Drew to get on his calendar at drew@profitcompassion.com
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Ep. 41 ”As a Woman, I Will Get Married, Have Kids, and Then Focus On a Career” Hannah Larrew’s False Narrative

What Hannah Larrew gleaned from life, growing up, is that as a woman her priorities should be to get married, have kids, and then focus on herself and her career. We discussed the pros and cons of this reality. The gift of being a wife and mom with the other side of that being sacrifice. She always felt like what she wanted to do was not as important as what the person sitting next to her wanted to do. This led her into an abusive relationship. Hannah was vulnerable about how that relationship ended. She'd had enough and had to do something about it! She reminded us all that "No." is a complete sentence.
She has taken her power back, and said she "feels the most 'me' I've ever felt." Hannah is married to a wonderful husband who treats her right and has recently become a mother. Her career is fulfilling as she is now a storyteller. She loves helping others tell their stories. She shared some daily practices. Hannah relishes in the little things daily to keep her positive spin on life. 
To Connect with Hannah Larrew: SpellboundPublicRelations.com
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Ep. 40 ”I Know Who and Whose I Am!” Rob Fenstermaker’s Narrative

There are two different types of people in this world, Rob Fenstermaker pointed out. He used the example of the movie Shawshank Redemption. Two men were released from prison. One, Brooks, was so comfortable with the walls that had been around him that he didn't know what to do with himself. The other character, Red, was honestly a little lost too at first. But when someone showed him the way, he took action in his life. The most important thing we can do, Rob stressed, is take action. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. Drink people!
Rob grew up in the 70's "all boy." He loved playing football but had a hunch the NFL wasn't going to be drafting him. As he got older he gained a reputation of being a punk. He made some bad choices but one of his other choices brought him to his wife. He learned about a whole new world of Catholicism. Rob questioned it at some point though and built the foundation that now he bases all of his choices. Hear how his church family surrounded them and solidified what Rob had been thinking when their son was given a grim diagnosis. And listen to what his wake-up call was and how he is intentional today guided with direction of focus for his legacy.
To Connect with Rob Fenstermaker: Robfenstermaker.com or email rob@robfenstermaker.com
To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live

Ep. 39 ”If I work really hard my life will be perfect like my parents” Kathy Izard’s False Narrative

Growing up with two high-achieving parents, Kathy Izard, naturally thought that if she too worked hard then her life would be perfect like her parents. 
The harsh reality was that her mother suffered from bipolar and her dad spent a lot of time taking care of her and keeping the peace. To others and apparently their children, her parent's lives seemed perfect. 
Kathy and her husband spent a lot of time working towards achieving their goals too. Untill a little whisper wouldn't leave her alone. At 44, she found herself switching career roles to something she knew nothing about. And her husband facing a serious health diagnosis...you may not have heard about this before! 
Their goals shifted. Their Intentions shifted. And now Kathy encourages others to "Trust Your Whisper." Now at 60 Kathy is looking forward to more bends in the road as she strives for her aspirational expiration. She's an author, speaker, coach, and holds workshops to help other women listen to that inner whisper and fulfill thier purpose in this life.
To Connect with Kathy Izard: KathyIzard.com  or WomenFaithStory.com
To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live

Ep. 38 ”Adversity Is a Gift with Opportunity Waiting On the Other Side” JD McCabe’s Narrative

Imagine waking up in a psychiatric institution not knowing how you got there! Listen as Danny gives the accounts of his ex-wife’s cruel treatment to him. He’d been complacent and explained how he didn’t see things were taking a turn for the worst until it was too late. Had she ever loved him? But the final straw was the third gift she gave him. It was so great that he wrote a book about it! You gotta listen to find out what it was and why Danny sees it as a lesson learned that adversity is a gift with opportunity waiting on the other side.
Danny shared a very sad realization one Thanksgiving after the divorce. He sat in his apartment all alone thinking how the holiday was carrying on as normal but without him. His family was celebrating and he was all alone. Holidays can be tough. It is so easy to romanticize what others are doing. But much to his surprise, he learned that his son had been on the defense all night. It’s important to
In all this, Danny learned the battle is not his to fight. He’s placed God in the center of his life. Danny has redefined who he wants to be, found himself again, and established boundaries. He will not take peace for granted again.
To Connect with JD McCabe: on Facebook: @TheThirdGift or https://thirdgift.com/
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Ep. 37 ”Life Is Cruel, Life is Hard, I’m Just Surviving” Michael Stover’s False Narrative

“The life you live is a lie. I have plans for you.”  Michael Williams Stover II heard as he was being attacked by 6 guys when he was 19. Michael had a cruel childhood living in section 8 housing, seeing cop cars drive by not to mention the gangs. Michael's mom spokes lies into him and he believed them.
When Michael’s brother was born he assumed the protective role over him. His mom was here and there and the men floating in an out of their lives found the boys to be an inconvenience. His mom would often point out that people were right, she should have aborted Michael. She would manipulate him with harsh words. Michael saw his classmates with normal functioning homes and wondered why he didn’t have that and why he couldn’t just be a kid.
Michael was fortunate enough to meet his dad who had matured and found God by the time they met. Unfortunately, Michael lost his dad when he was just 12. It was about this time too that he realized if he sought to make money that also got him out of his house. He had good people showing small acts of kindness. He knew it was God’s voice he heard at 19 while he was being attacked. And God wanted Michael to stop believing those lies so he could know his value and go on to help others find their value. You have got to listen to this episode to hear how the kind people he was exposed to while making money, meeting his dad, and learning his value turned his life around.
“There is some good in this world and it’s worth fighting for.”-Lord of the Rings
To Connect with Michael Williams Stover II: michaelstover2019@gmail.com, LinkedIn @MichaelS. or Valor Media - Valor Media
To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live

Ep. 36 ”I Don’t Belong” Bobby Peterson’s False Narrative

Where are all the listeners that grew up in the country? Were your siblings your best friends? For Robert Peterson that was the case. He and his sister played together a lot due to the nearest neighbor being over a mile away.
When Robert was little he went by Bobby. Little Bobby got bullied and took to heart all the terrible things the other kids said. He never felt like he belonged. He felt alone like he was the only one going through this. Then, the end of eigth grade, he got news that his dad was laid off from his job. This meant the family would have to move. The sold their dream home, moved into a trailer, and started their new life 2 hours away from where home used to be. Life forever changed his freshmen year when Bobby now went by Robert. Listen to the full episode to learn about the shift in Robert’s narrative.
Now Robert focuses on entrepreneurs not feeling alone. The entrepreneurial space can be lonely. He wants them to know other entrepreneurs have faced similar challenges. He focuses on his legacy and what that looks like. So naturally he helps others find the the same vision. He helps them to drill down to what that looks like financially but also with people in their lives.
To Connect with Robert Peterson: LinkedIn @RobertCPeterson or BizLifeCoach.com or email: robert@addvalue2life.com
Scripture Robert Sited: Proverbs 13:22
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