Narrative Podcast

Ep. 49 " I Will Wait For a Spouse That Is a Good Fit" Melissa VanOss's Narrative

Melissa Van Oss, watched her grandparents as she grew up, they represented the perfect couple. They complimented each other and one was never far from the other. Their example of a life long relationship became Melissa guiding light for her life.
However, when she looked to her parents for that same example she saw divorce. She shared how she processed that loss and how it changed her view of what she wanted for herself. She knew she wanted to wait for a connection that would last. 
In her waiting, she grew quite independent. Melissa crafted an identity of her own, that did not depend on a lifelong partner. She'd love to get married, had many long-term relationships,  but she wasn't going to settle. And as she explained, her grandmother was independent and that example gave Melissa encouragement to go from country mouse to small town to city mouse now in D.C. Melissa shared her daily practices for developing personally and in business as she waits for Mr. Right.
To Connect with Melissa VanOss: creativeblissllc@yahoo.com
on all social @AuthorMelissaVanOss, LinkedIn @MelissaVanOss, and https://linktr.ee/melissavanoss
 
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Ep. 48 "I Have to Fill In the Gaps" Tyler Schmoll's False Narrative

Tyler Schmoll, self-proclaimed "gap filler" and human version of Curious George got vulnerable about how those personality characteristics ultimately made him close his business.  Tyler had gotten good at filling the gaps, doing those things others didn't want to do. Or when things went arye, he was "Johnny On the Spot" willing to help in any way, shape, or form.  At the same time being curious, "How do we, how can I,  solve this problem?"
It all came to a head when he saw his wife struggling due to his desire to fill gaps at work and at home. He shared how it felt to him, as that identity, of being a business owner, wasn't his anymore. He doesn't see it as a failure because he chose his family and that was the right decision by him. Tyler offered a unique perspective of reacting vs. responding. 
Connect with Tyler Schmoll: iam@yourgreenercleaner.com, or on 
FB: TylerSchmoll, and IG: @Tyler__Schmoll
To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live

Ep. 47 "I Am Going To Be a Hero." Rob Hohmann's Narrative

Rob Hohmann's dad did a good job protecting his family and country, and Rob was watching. He too wanted to be a protector. He fell in love, got married, and before the year was up found himself getting a divorce. He felt like he'd gone from hero to zero. But like a true hero, he didn't give up on life and love. He learned the lesson of "What may seem like a short coming, could be a blessing in disguise."
Actually, the same year his divorce was final he found himself promising vows to another woman. An animated Italian woman who embraced him. He now has the privilege of protecting them. But not just them. Listen to how Rob became a hero again. He is today, who he thought he'd be - reliable, protective, go to bat for others. You may be surprised how he does it though!
Rob Hohmann's Digital Business Card: RobHohmann.com
text: 813-943-9683
To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live

Ep. 46 "It's a Cold, Dark, and Isolating World." Keegan Schaefer's False Narrative

When you grow up in abuse, neglect, and abandonment, it's easy to draw the conclusion Keegan Schaefer did. Keegan shared just a few of the injustices he suffered, as little as 2 years old. When he was 12 years old he weighed the pros and cons of continuing his Ritalin medication. It was one of the best decisions Keegan has made in his life. Keegan has since used his adversity to understand human behavior and the power we hold in making decisions in our lives.
He shed light on how life was 6 generations ago and how our evolution through war, men working outside of the city they live in, and the Industrial Revolution, that life has really changed. In life, through watching the people that care for us, we draw three conclusions. And by age 18 we have confirmed these conclusions that we then use for the rest of our lives.
We draw conclusions about ourselves
We draw conclusions about others or groups at large
We draw conclusions about life at large
 Now, Keegan encourages others to face adversity head-on! Listen as he explains where the American family has been, where we are now, and how to be thankful for adversity and grow. How can you be showing up as your best in your priorities so you can serve your mission?
"This too shall pass" (for the great times or for the bad times)
"You can have the best boat, the best crew, and best captain on the entire ocean, but without a destination, you are just going to float aimlessly!" -Arnold Schwarzenegger
Three questions Coach Keeg uses and encourages others to ask themselves when faced with adversity.
What is the lesson?
What is the opportunity?
How can I use this to help others?
To Connect with Keegan Schaefer: LinkedIn: Keegan Schaefer Email: Coachkeeg@gmail.com
To Work with Keegan Schaefer: coachkeeg@tribalstoics.group, CKC.Coach, Tribal Stoics - Men’s Facebook Group
LinkedIn: Tribal StoicsCheck out Keegan Schaefer's book: Selfish to Selfless: 5 Pillars to Fulfillment Through Purpose
To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live

Ep. 45 "If I Chase After the Things I Want, Everyone Might Suffer For it." Adam Troy's False Narrative

How do you turn into a nice guy? Adam Troy grew up bigger than the other kids his age so his mom warned him not to get upset and react physically because he could hurt them. After a traumatic evening of simply wanting mac and cheese, he got what he wanted but then his house blew up with arguing and emotions. Throughout life, Adam put others first so they got to be happy. Time and time again Adam had ot put others first so as to not let them get hurt.
This proved to not be beneficial in his marriage either. Adam told the whole story including him finally acting out in anger from bottling up all his resentment about what he wanted. But then it was time to look in the mirror. He realized he did not have the power to change a room. He does not let his past define him but he does use his core values of protecting his family's physical, financial, emotional, and spiritual peace to make decisions now. He knows he was given a life and a purpose. Listen to how he is helping other men who experience what he went through in his marriage.
To Connect with Adam Troy: IG @TheEpicLifeCoaching,  Facebook Epic Life (Coach),  LinkedIn Adam Troy or YouTube @TheEpicLifeCoach
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Ep. 44 "It's About What You Can Do, Instead of What You Can't" Betty Galligan's Narrative

One would think that growing up with two deaf parents was not fair. Betty Galligan, our guest today, never picked up on that attitude from her parents and never experienced it herself. Betty and her siblings didn't know there was anything wrong with their parents until the rest of the world pointed it out. Her large extended family focused on what they could do instead of what they couldn't. 
And Betty found out that she could do a lot of things. Listen as she shares her successes in life. Late 80's 90's culture was to work harder not smarter. She somehow found herself striving for perfection. That was until one day when a person who did not exude the image of perfectionism acted in a way that would dawn on Betty as perfect years later. It dawned on Betty that perfectionism didn't matter but listening and connecting with people is what mattered. Learn about her new business venture and how she helps people to connect. 
To Connect with Betty Galligan by email: betty@newberrypr.com or online NewberryPR.com and  ThePRFinishingSchool.com
To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live

Ep. 43 "You Are Going to Take Over the Family Business" Trunnis Goggins II's Narrative

On December 24th, 1995 Trunnis Goggins III was born and Trunnis Goggins II knew he needed to get his act together to provide and protect this little human who would be depending on him. 
Trunnis Goggin II, from Buffalo, NY, had been told from an early age that his dad's "empire" would be his. He felt like he lived in his dad's shadow. But Trunnis had no passion for managing businesses and refused to accept that he'd take over. While his peers dreamed of what they would do and then pursued it, Trunnis's future was planned. So he did what normal teens do, he rebelled. Not rebelled and paved his own path, he rebelled to the point of hurting himself and his future. But when he became a father, it all changed. 
Trunnis moved to Indiana and joined the Navy. There he was taught discipline, and accountability, found his identity, and developed a good mindset. He's written a book The 4P's of You. Listen to this episode to find out what the book is all about, how he helps inmates, and you gotta check out his podcast to learn about getting an accountability practice started in your life too!
Connect With Trunnis Goggins II on his Podcast: The 4P's Podcast
Check out his book: The 4 P’s of You
To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live

Ep. 42 "Do The Right Thing. Don't Take Risks" Drew Deraney False Narrative

"No Skateboards, you'll hurt yourself. No climbing trees, I don't want you to fall and get hurt. No guns in the house!" These were the rules of Drew Deraney's mom while his dad was away working to provide for the family.  Little did he know, it was because of an incident in their family, that Drew's mom sheltered him so much. Drew was taught not to take risks, do the right thing, and life will work out. 
This was not Drew's experience. He let loose in college, took himself too seriously when he entered the workplace, and then went rogue doing "the right thing" only to be fired. Listen to Drew explain how he resented "Do the right thing." at the same time as honoring "Do the right thing." He reasoned it's how you do the right thing. And what he has seen is that men don't get that permission. Learn about the opportunities he's pursuing to do the right thing and help men to be more authentically themselves due to life lessons he shared in this episode. 
To Connect with Drew Deraney: Get access to Drew's Free Webinar "Get Over Yourself" go to www.profitcompassion.com or email Drew to get on his calendar at drew@profitcompassion.com
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Ep. 41 ”As a Woman, I Will Get Married, Have Kids, and Then Focus On a Career” Hannah Larrew’s False Narrative

What Hannah Larrew gleaned from life, growing up, is that as a woman her priorities should be to get married, have kids, and then focus on herself and her career. We discussed the pros and cons of this reality. The gift of being a wife and mom with the other side of that being sacrifice. She always felt like what she wanted to do was not as important as what the person sitting next to her wanted to do. This led her into an abusive relationship. Hannah was vulnerable about how that relationship ended. She'd had enough and had to do something about it! She reminded us all that "No." is a complete sentence.
She has taken her power back, and said she "feels the most 'me' I've ever felt." Hannah is married to a wonderful husband who treats her right and has recently become a mother. Her career is fulfilling as she is now a storyteller. She loves helping others tell their stories. She shared some daily practices. Hannah relishes in the little things daily to keep her positive spin on life. 
To Connect with Hannah Larrew: SpellboundPublicRelations.com
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Ep. 40 ”I Know Who and Whose I Am!” Rob Fenstermaker’s Narrative

There are two different types of people in this world, Rob Fenstermaker pointed out. He used the example of the movie Shawshank Redemption. Two men were released from prison. One, Brooks, was so comfortable with the walls that had been around him that he didn't know what to do with himself. The other character, Red, was honestly a little lost too at first. But when someone showed him the way, he took action in his life. The most important thing we can do, Rob stressed, is take action. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. Drink people!
Rob grew up in the 70's "all boy." He loved playing football but had a hunch the NFL wasn't going to be drafting him. As he got older he gained a reputation of being a punk. He made some bad choices but one of his other choices brought him to his wife. He learned about a whole new world of Catholicism. Rob questioned it at some point though and built the foundation that now he bases all of his choices. Hear how his church family surrounded them and solidified what Rob had been thinking when their son was given a grim diagnosis. And listen to what his wake-up call was and how he is intentional today guided with direction of focus for his legacy.
To Connect with Rob Fenstermaker: Robfenstermaker.com or email rob@robfenstermaker.com
To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live